In a significant leap forward in the field of urology, Dr. Pavlos Georgiadis, a leading surgeon, urologist, and andrologist, has pioneered a revolutionary prostatitis treatment that is capable of non-surgically restoring the prostate to its original volume and softness transforming the management of this often misunderstood condition.
Chronic Prostatitis affects 65% of the male population including men as young as 18 years old, and is marked by painful inflammation of the prostate gland which is situated between the penis and bladder, and stems from a bacterial infection or disease. Typically, symptoms begin mildly and intensify gradually leading to partial or complete erectile dysfunction, severe pain in or around the genital area, difficulty or pain during urination, frequent urination (especially at night), urgent urges to urinate, blood in urine, incomplete bladder emptying, general malaise with fatigue, aches, and possibly fever and potentially fertility problems.
Over the last 35 years, Dr. Georgiadis has treated over 4,500 men with the condition, many of whom have reported diminished libido and complex feelings about attraction and fidelity. Here, he sheds light on these misconceptions, offering insight into the emotional and psychological dimensions of male sexuality.
"The connection between libido, attraction, and infidelity is complex and often misunderstood. Many men experiencing a loss of libido mistakenly equate it with a lack of attraction to their partners, leading to frustration and sometimes the temptation to seek validation outside their relationships. Research shows that sexual dissatisfaction is a strong predictor of infidelity among men, often stemming from psychological, hormonal, or situational factors rather than a genuine loss of attraction.
"The prostate’s role in male sexuality is crucial; chronic prostatitis can cause erectile dysfunction and a loss of libido and the emotional strain from this condition often drives men to seek comfort elsewhere. When a man experiences a loss of libido, feelings of frustration, embarrassment, and diminished self-esteem can strain intimate relationships and foster dissatisfaction.
"A study published in The Journal of Sexual Medicine bore this out. It found higher relational dissatisfaction and increased conflict among men with sexual dysfunctions, including ED, who engaged in extramarital affairs. Such behaviour may stem from a need to regain a sense of control or validate their masculinity, especially if their relationship is strained by sexual difficulties. Additionally, the study suggests that infidelity is associated with a more active sexual desire and better self-reported sexual function with secondary partners, potentially exacerbating the cycle of dissatisfaction.
"In my years of treating thousands of men with chronic prostatitis, many have reported that a loss of their libido has led to an emotional distance from their partners, sometimes resulting in a search for connections outside their marriage underscoring the need to address both the physical and psychological reasons that may lead to infidelity.
"Chronic prostatitis affects millions of men, leading to significant pain and discomfort. Persistent pelvic pain, difficulties with urination, and diminished sexual function can distort perceptions of attraction towards one’s partner. Many men struggling with libido loss due to chronic prostatitis may mistakenly interpret this as diminished attraction, leading them to consider infidelity as a misguided solution.
"A former patient who struggled with chronic prostatitis for over two years before finding relief from the condition at my clinic reflected: 'For a long time, I felt like a different person. I’d pull away from my partner, convinced that something was wrong with me - or worse, that maybe I just wasn’t attracted to her anymore. The pain was relentless, and I didn’t know how to explain that it wasn’t just physical; it messed with my head, too. Looking back, I understand why some men feel the urge to look for comfort elsewhere, thinking it might fill that void. You just want to feel like yourself again, like a man.'
"'He goes on to share his recovery experience: "I’ll never forget the moment I realised I was feeling better. It wasn’t just about not hurting anymore. My libido came back, and with it, all those feelings I thought I’d lost. I felt drawn to my partner again, like when we first met. Regaining my health was like flipping a switch. I was me again, and we became us again.'
"I have seen many similar transformations among my patients. Suffering from chronic prostatitis involves not only enduring physical pain but often also experiencing loss of libido, erectile dysfunction, and emotional distress. This distress can mislead men into believing they’ve lost attraction for their partners.
"However, many men suffer in silence, as chronic prostatitis symptoms are often dismissed as trivial. Hence, the true level of pain and lifestyle consequences frequently go overlooked, significantly impacting those affected.
"The misconception that a loss of libido signifies diminished attraction creates unnecessary rifts in relationships. Addressing these misunderstandings alongside the physical aspects of the condition is crucial. Fortunately, when men receive proper care for chronic prostatitis, they often report renewed intimacy. Effective treatment not only restores libido but also renews or strengthens the emotional bond with their partners.
"As a testament to the profound impact of chronic prostatitis and his journey to recovery, former patient Mark Swain authored the book, 'How to Cure Chronic Prostatitis and Get Your Life Back.' His personal reflections provide invaluable insight into the struggles men face with this condition, underscoring the importance of the right treatment.
"By shedding light on chronic prostatitis and its impact on relationships, I advocate for a deeper understanding of how health issues can negatively impact emotional and sexual intimacy. For men experiencing chronic prostatitis and a loss of libido, seeking treatment is vital - not only to heal the condition, but to safeguard their relationships."
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Photo: left to right Mark Swain with Dr. Pavlos Georgiadis.