Loaded Style: How to Nail Buying Lingerie for The Missus (Without Getting It Horribly Wrong)
By Jenna Barnes, Director of Raine & Bea
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Let’s be real, lads, buying lingerie for your missus is a minefield. Pick wrong, and you risk a frosty night on the sofa. Pick right, and you’re the hero of the hour. Luckily, Jenna Barnes, the woman behind luxury British label Raine & Bea, has broken it down for you, from what she’ll actually wear to what’ll make her feel drop-dead gorgeous.
To make your life easier, we’ve picked out the top trending Raine & Bea pieces that’ll have her unwrapping more than just the gift this Christmas.
What she actually will wear vs what YOU think is sexy.
Ok, so your lady wants to be styled sexily with underwear that will flatter her shape and style. We ladies know what would make us feel sexy but that may not be what you envisage as sexy or admirable. We love to showcase Raine & Bea pieces within multiple marketing campaigns where you can picture your partner’s aesthetic in any piece of Raine & Bea lingerie, whether that may be the ‘Messy Girl’ (think Kate Moss, Jamie Winston ‘it’ girl vibes from the 90s) or ‘Clean Girl’ (pretty pinks and sporty leggings) — we’ve got you covered.
👉 Try this look: The Leopard Print Bra and Brief Set — wild, wearable, and perfect for a “Messy Girl” vibe.
Why buying comfort may impress her more.
Comfort doesn’t necessarily mean you need to compromise on style, no need to be thinking ‘Bridget Jones’ style knickers. There are many brands (pick me! pick me!) that offer sexy everyday fashion-led lingerie. Why would comfort potentially impress her more? As you’ve probably noticed, your partner may be wearing the same bra day in, day out, especially for work or daytime activities. That’s because of the comfort and fit of the bra they are wearing. I’ve always said “creating the perfect style and fit of a bra is like creating a Saville Row suit.” The fit needs to be perfect, not “blimey you’d need scaffolding to hold those up!”. In any case with choosing lingerie for your partner, it has to be about comfort, fit and of course feeling confident and sexy.
👉 Try this look: The Leopard Print Comfort Set with Violet Trim — bold and soft, designed for everyday wear.
The sexiest set she can actually wear under clothes (think dinner date then home for dessert 😉)
It has to be the Spotlight leopard bra and thong set with violet trims. The violet really adds that pop of striking colour taking you from day to night with the custom Raine & Bea leopard print, giving off fierce bedroom vibes. Lingerie that brings comfort with style. Or why not try our Spotlight bra and knickers with cream trims? This colourway has the French maid appeal whilst giving an effortless energy.
👉 Try this look: The Leopard Bra and Briefs — sexy enough for dessert, comfortable enough for dinner.
PJs she will love this Christmas that don't make her look like a frump!
We designed lounge pieces which add sparkle to comfort. The gold metallic branded waistband dazzles without aggravating the skin (believe us, we’ve trialled it) — adding show-stopping features to our loungewear is what makes Raine & Bea stand out from any other loungewear brand.
The Raine & Bea Encore cotton lounge pants aren’t just super comfy but they also have pockets (and we all love pockets!). With our trousers and long sleeve crop top or racer-back bralette, you’ll be a winner this Christmas. And remember — Raine & Bea lounge pieces can also be worn outdoors on a chilled-out Sunday afternoon or with heels for a night out.
👉 Try this look: The Red Balcony Bra and Brief Set — festive, flattering, and full of attitude.
Bras to buy her that give her shape without the dated balloon lift look.
Our Wardrobe Mistress balcony bra with slight padding and a ‘shelf’ style uplift — in my opinion, this style of bra has to be the most flattering on most body types. A classic shape and style bra available in a red wine colour and black — you can’t go wrong! Whether it’s worn on a daily basis or an evening out under a lace dress or paired with a blazer and trousers, this is the must-have classic style bra that gives a perfectly presented silhouette.
👉 Try this look: The Classic Black Corset — sleek, shaping, and timelessly sexy.
Thongs vs Brazilian — which should you buy her?
If she wears thongs or Brazilian-style knickers then the Curtain Call brazilian or thong option in cream or black is the one to choose. Not only does the brazilian share a sexy fit but it’s also made in an adorable heart lace fabric. Nothing says “I love you” more than the Curtain Call push-up bra, thong, or brazilian.
👉 Try this look: Mix-and-match Leopard or Red Sets for a fail-safe finish.
Loaded’s Top 3 Raine & Bea Picks
1. The Leopard Set — The All-Day Showstopper
This one’s an instant winner. The Leopard Print Bra and Knicker Set from Raine & Bea brings that perfect mix of wild and wearable. It’s bold, confident, and surprisingly comfy — the kind of set she can rock under clothes all day, then still feel sexy enough to strut around in later. The purple trim adds a luxe edge, giving it that “I’m stylish but dangerous” vibe.
2. The Red Set — Christmas Night Sorted
Nothing says “festive fantasy” like Raine & Bea’s Red Bra and Brief Set. Think old-school glamour meets modern fit. The balcony cut gives shape without the balloon lift, and the bold red screams confidence. Pair it with heels or keep it classic with stockings — either way, she’ll look unreal.
3. The Black Corset — For the Femme Fatale in Your Life
For the woman who loves to take charge (and you secretly love that she does), go for the Raine & Bea Black Corset. Sleek, structured, and seriously flattering, it shapes her body like it was tailored just for her. It’s got that timeless burlesque feel — classy, powerful, and just a bit dangerous.
Final Word:
Whether she’s the wild type or the soft romantic, there’s a Raine & Bea piece that’ll make her feel confident, sexy, and totally herself. Buy her something that fits her vibe, not just your fantasy — and trust us, she’ll thank you later.
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